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Survey: Spanking? (Mature)? Ladies (or guys... i guess?)
Spanking, Or No Spanking?
"In the bedroom" i mean
i hear lots of mixed reviews from female friends, so i wanted to know your opinion | Spank me!! I've been a bad girl!!! Haha!
Def Spank! | How do I tell my husband I want to be spanked? (pls: serious, mature answers only)? I have been interested in domestic discipline for a long time, but he doesn't know. I don't know how he will react. | | During a roll in the hay, remind him of how naughty you've been, and hand him a paddle. Go for something lightweight, so it'll sting, but not bruise. Ping-pong paddles and wooden rulers may come in handy. The hand can be tricky, as it's easier to put too much force behind it when ya get excited. As far as how exactly how to tell him, as above, I would introduce the idea when he's most receptive...and already getting something he wants. Also, start off easy--only a little at a time. As you get accustommed to it, you'll probably feel more comfortable doing it more often. | Spanking the Monkey poll: What are some other euphemisms for self pleasure? Let's all try to be mature here............no, seriously. lol
Thanks. | RUBBIING ONE OUT
Dating mother thumb and her four daughters
Playing pocket pool
Milking the lizard
Waxing the wand (that's what the boys at Hogwarts call it, none of the girls would admit to masturbating) | Are there any 'mature' mothers, grandmothers, etc, or old fashioned moms out there who didn't spank? I ask because I'm a mother of 6, and a grandmother to 3, and I grew up in the generation where EVERYBODY spanked guyren without a second thought. However, I preferred not to, as I wanted to encourage my guyren to think about their own behaviour, and I was often accused of being too liberal and letting my guyren grow up into spoilt brats. However, and of course I'm biased here, I find my guyren all to be very well adjusted adults, raising wonderful guyren of their own, never been in trouble, all hold jobs, etc etc.
It just made me wonder, has anyone else had a similar experience? | My parents raised 10 guys from the 1950's to the 1980's. Never spanked any of us at all.
We all turned out just fine, no jail time, have jobs, help in our communities, etc... | How do i teach a three year old how to be mature enough for kindergarden? My little little little brother can go to kindergarden next year but the teachers at he's school say he is not mature enough but my mum said if he has to repeat preschool then she wants him to repeat kindy. when i teach him anything, he just plays and makes me angry that i need to spank him. what should i do with him? he doesn't even know how to speak english or numbers or alphabet because he's too naughty to learn.any ideas?oh please help | | how about being a little patient, and don't spazz out on him. a little kindness ain't gonna hurt your boy. | My husband wants to start using domestic discipline? MATURE AND SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE? My husband's sister & her husband have been part of a domestic discipline relationship for a little over a year now. (For those of you who do not know, it is when a couple gives their consent for either the man or woman; usually the man; to lead the household. If he feels it is needed, he can punish the woman when she does something wrong - usually by spanking, writing lines, cornertime, etc.) It has worked tremendously for their relationship, especially since they were considering divorce earlier last year. My husband's sister's husband is constantly telling her that if she is going to behave like a guy he will treat her like one. My husband wants to try it to see how it goes, but I'm still wondering if I should. My sister-in-law's husband uses paddles, belts & other implements for punishment, always on her bare bottom. My sister-in-law insists that it works but I just want a few extra opinions from SERIOUS people. Any experience with this?? Thank you! Only positive responses please | | I think someone in any relationship needs to be the final say for decisions. I think this depends on the man and woman, and I can see situations where it might be helpful. I personally wouldn't do it, I think finding compromise is a needed part of any relationship, and that shuts the door on most of that. | SPANKING AS A FORM OF DISCIPLINE ( 1 yr old guy)? Advice Please!? My son is 1 yrs old, well 15 mths old. He does things and He knows what " no no" means . Sometimes it frustrates me and I tend to yell, once I have calmed down I talk to him. My husband on the other hand feels that spanking is a form of discipline , I feel that my son is too young to understand why he is being hit, and its a form of abuse rather than discipline. He's only 1 yrs old, he is young and he is still learning and developing. I want to know other parents views - ideas - and/or advice on spanking as a form of discipline.
NO RUDE COMMENTS please. Lets be mature about this matter.
All replies appreciated ! | I think he's too young for a spanking. However one swat to a padded diaper and a firm "NO!" might help. Before you swat, clap your hands together loudly, and tell him "NO!". He will learn that the tone in your voice means business.
As to spanking, there is a HUGE difference between hitting, and spanking. Any loving parent who uses spanking understands. Hitting is done in rage with the intent to cause injury or harm. Spanking is done out of calmness, and love with the intent to CORRECT bad behavior.
However like I said, your son is to young for a spanking, I do recommend that you allow your husband to "be the father" as he sees fit. If he's abusive, angry, and causing injury, SURE you got to step in. But if he is swiftly laying the law down with a spanking (once he's older) he's being a good father.
Good Luck | If You Treat Your Kids As if They Are Adults, Don't They Grow Up as More Mature? I was treated with respect by my father, and I have always fondly remembered that. I have tried the same with my guys and so far it seems to be working fine. I do not spank them but I am firm. I wonder if that's the best approach. | Absolutely. I was treated very much as an equal growing up, and I matured a LOT faster because of it. Almost to the point where it wasn't healthy, but that's another discussion entirely.
I think that if you treat your guyren with respect, they will respect you more, and learn to respect themselves. | Why do people oppose spanking so much? Why do so many parent's oppose spanking. I have answered a lot of question on hear about miss behaving teens and younger guyren. When ever I stated "spare the road spoil the guy" it attracted many MANY "thumbs down." Switches, belts, paddles etc have been in use for thousands of years, since biblical times. Suddenly, in the past 30, 40 years liberal hippies have started out-lawing it and pre-caliming "oh, it hurts my little baby" "oh it is bad for the psychology of the guy" pfffffff! Even Einstein had been spanked. I am eastern european and remember back in the days when I went to school one of my friend actual had sausage shaped welts on his legs from being spanked with a wet cloth. He is one of the nicest and most well behaved people I know. I have a very mature 13 year old, who is one of the ebest student in the school, I have mentioned before that I do let her date as she feels read, she is mental and emotional mature and I trust her (that again got me thumbs down, I could care less) And believe me, I DID NOT SPRE THE ROD!! OK, she is a good guy and a mature guys so it was very rare that I had to spank her I spanked her ocne with a belt, once with a rod and she did get a couple of slapps across the face (I see hear on yahoo answers that a "slaps" also attract thumbs down) Anyway, history has proved time and time again that these spanks actually work!!
Why are so many parents and dumb politicians against it?
I mean, yeah, it is illegal to spank in anything but my hand in my state, so what, that makes me a criminal now?
So why so many thumbs downs??? | Lazy parenting. They would rather be best friends than have to discipline their guys.
These are also the same people who were disciplined as guys, and swore they would never do that to their guys. So instead of being well behaved, and learning a lesson, their guys walk all over them.
Then they come on here asking us to help them fix it, but still refuse to spank.
Parents who are easy on guys, have guys who are hard on parents. |
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